how to stay sane in an age of division

As a palette cleanser before the guilty pleasure trash that I am about to review, let’s review a more serious book. 

 

I want to preface this by saying that I have heard only good things about Elif Shafak, her advocacy for women’s rights as well as her fiction writings (such as The Island of Missing Trees, which I want to read). I would recommend listening to her Ted Talk.   But this particular book was not my favourite. Since it is not her writing, nor the subject which bothered me, I have narrowed it down to two barriers to my enjoying the book. One: I have personal difficulties with non-fiction as of late Two: I had a lot of trouble figuring out what the purpose of the book was. In fact book is perhaps the wrong word, it’s more like an essay. A collection of quotes, thoughts, and surface-level ideas about identity, and emotions which come with living in an age of constant politically-driven conflict. This might have worked better as a talk actually. None of the ideas were particularly original. I don’t think that’s a requirement, but then I would like the ideas to be considered in depth so that I can learn something. I wrote on the inside cover: “These sentences are food for thought, not thoughts themselves”. I want to demonstrate my softness with my judgement of this book, by contrasting it with Ambre’s review. (Note: she was forced into reading this against her will). 

 

“The Intentions are very unclear” – on this we both agreed wholeheartedly. She is also right that no answer was given to the question. It’s very vague: “choose empathy over hatred” for example. 

 

I did appreciate some things. For example, the particular combination of ideas was nice – she wove together a lot of very tangled concepts to create a full image of what this “age of division” can do to us. Not necessarily telling me anything new, but giving me something complete to consider. I also really enjoyed the passage about her struggle with identity, being born in France, raised in Turkey, and citizen to many other countries.

On feeling like an Istanbulite, she writes: 

 

“Motherlands are castles made of glass. In order to leave them, you have to break something – a wall, a social convention, a cultural norm, a psychological barrier, a heart… to be an emigré, therefore, means to forever have shards of glass in you pockets. […] It is easy to forget they are there … but at the slightest contact, the shards will remind you of their presence”

I loved this passage. It makes me want to read her fiction. Ambre and I had a little chat about why our expectations for original ideas is different for fiction and non-fiction. Maybe a discussion for the next review. Or something for you to think about.

 

Rated 3 out of 5

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